From the last question about the abuse and my husband not having a job?

He actually has his own business now and does well. But since the bankruptcy, we are both afraid to buy things. I had money from a law suit from a truck driver that killed my mother. He lived off of it and didn’t hardly work until the money was almost gone. But since he started to work we have started a family; Iam now on disability for being on antidepressant meds and that causes a new set of conflicts. I’m not sure he is totally honest about the money he makes unless I go with him to work. He seems to hold back money from me and tells me not to spend it on this and that like I’m going to get him back big time. I mostly sit home and sleep when the kids are in school and I’m not with him. We work well together but sometimes being with him we get into arguements about why he dosen’t get enough money from people. He is one of those jack of all trades and master of none. He took a few college courses and has earned himself a few cps. But he gets stress out and yells at the kids. Not sure.

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3 Responses to “From the last question about the abuse and my husband not having a job?”

1. christycat88 Says:
   June 27th, 2009 at 7:27 am

   Ah sweetie….

   I wish I could help you. I’ve been on anti-depressants for almost 2 years…

   So I know how you feel.

   I’m sorry… this isn’t much of an answer – more of an empathy message… I wish I could help.

2. Tseruyah Says:
   June 30th, 2009 at 12:27 am

   In a healthy marriage where the spouses are equal, financial disclosure is essential and complete with full accounting of every penny earned (and large expenditures).

   Taxes may be the problem you face next. A good friend of mine had a husband who sounds a lot like yours. He only worked when necessary and was somewhat distant from his children. They often lived off money borrowed from her parents.

   He filed for taxes each year but did not disclose all he earned and then had his wife sign the tax forms and when they divorced, there was an audit and SHE was held 50% responsible for thousands in back taxes.

   Be really careful with this man. He has his own agenda and doesn’t sound especially trustworthy.

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