Brother-in-law vs family conflict?
My bro-in-law is divorced w/ bankruptcy in his past. He now shaves his legs (so he can tan) and works as a telemarketer (he has his degree in tourism). He spends all his money on his 18-year old girlfriend - he is 32 years old. She graduated high school last month.
Ok - now for the problem. He and his girlfriend went on an outing with his parents to the mall. The parents paid for lunch as they do when they visit in town. They were making out and groaping each other in front of everyone and it REALLY embarrassed his parents. His sweet mother asked him, in private, if he could not do that in front of them because it made them uncomfortable. He threw his hands up and said, “That’s it, I’m done!” and he left. That was in April. He has never been heard from or seen since. He refuses to answer anyones calls but said earlier that he needs to find a new family. We have sent him his birthday gifts and emails but no response. We have spent hours praying for him. This is killing his family!
September 17th, 2009 at 3:35 am
HE SOUNDS LIKE A WEIRDO!
September 19th, 2009 at 10:27 am
sunds to me like he just needs to grow up give it time he’ll come around
September 21st, 2009 at 8:50 pm
look dear it is a very sad think that for a gril u live ur family u kno now u should tell his parent that try to forget abt him if he is happy with his life and does not gave a dame abt anyone else why do u carry i think u all should stop mail and call him and see he will come back and even his mom hant said anythink bad to him if he was my son i will not even gave a fuckkkkk abt him and if he had done somethinkg like this to me and left me even if he was no this keen it will be hard to forgave him coz jsut for some one he just meet he left his family he is sick
September 24th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
YEAH HE NEEDS TO GROWN THE HELL UP AND RESPECT YOUR FAMILY MORE!!! JUST BECAUSE HE IS WITH A 18 YEAR OLD DOESN’T MEAN HE SHOULD ACT LIKE IT
September 27th, 2009 at 8:00 am
I think that he has been looking for an excuses to ailienate everyone. I think you and your family have done enough. He is 32 he has to grow up some time & tough love may be what he needs. I think you should stop reaching out & let him do some of the work & I think that once you stop reaching out he will come to realize what he is missing & how important family is.